Relationships WTF

Yesterday I started wondering about relationships.How each and every one of them are unique just like a snowflake.Think about it for a second.Our world is so crowded yet there are people who find their soulmates-that is if the term soulmates really exists.Is there such thing as a soulmate or is it just another euphism for being ordinary and boring?Are relationships better when two people are completely different or if they are exactly the same?We,have all been raised with the ideology that great fights lead to great relationships but is that so?If we are very different sure it can spice up the whole relationship thingy but then we will be fighting over small things and won't it be too exhausting that eventually one of us will have to retire?Or if we are alike then won't things always be the same with a monotonous path which will lead us to the gates of breaking up?To sum up we can say that these things are fucked up people so I say stop thşnking and just take action,good luck :)